尤其是對父母

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兒童性虐待的統計數據不能讓我們無動於衷。作為父母,我們必須採取行動提高認識,並為我們的孩子提供有助於我們保護他們免受性虐待的知識和工具。我們為您收集了有關這些問題的基本工具和信息。

 

12 黃金準則

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יד שמאל אדומה יעל פדר
יד ימין אדומה יעל פדר.

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 行為改變——如果孩子感到悲傷、壓抑、生氣、暴怒。

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 行為改變——如果孩子感到悲傷、壓抑、生氣、暴怒。

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 行為改變——如果孩子感到悲傷、壓抑、生氣、暴怒。

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 行為改變——如果孩子感到悲傷、壓抑、生氣、暴怒。

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 行為改變——如果孩子感到悲傷、壓抑、生氣、暴怒。

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 行為改變——如果孩子感到悲傷、壓抑、生氣、暴怒。

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 行為改變——如果孩子感到悲傷、壓抑、生氣、暴怒。

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 行為改變——如果孩子感到悲傷、壓抑、生氣、暴怒。

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 行為改變——如果孩子感到悲傷、壓抑、生氣、暴怒。

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 行為改變——如果孩子感到悲傷、壓抑、生氣、暴怒。

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 行為改變——如果孩子感到悲傷、壓抑、生氣、暴怒。

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 行為改變——如果孩子感到悲傷、壓抑、生氣、暴怒。

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Children have a natural and healthy curiosity. It is important that we, as parents, don't avoid our children's questions, even if they make us uncomfortable. If the kids don't get answers for their questions' they will look for them elsewhere.

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It is a delicate line between teaching our children and frightening them. It is important to speak with our children at eye-level, in their own day-to-day language. There is no need to have a formal discussion with our kids, we don't want to intimidate them. It is best to have an honest open talk during our daily routines.

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Encourage open communication at home. Avoid any atmosphere of secrecy or hiding, that hides feelings and information. Parents cannot expect their children to tell them if something bad happens to them, if they don't share daily mundane things. Encourage you child to share and tell.

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Give you children a sense of trust and attention. Children's biggest fear is that no one will believe them if they say something bad happened. Do not treat what they are saying as imaginary. This is the only way children will share with their parents.

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Encourage your child to trust their feelings. Be attentive to their wills and respect them.

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Teach your children that they don’t always have to do what adults tell them to. If an adult tells them to do things that harm their privacy (to touch or look at private parts of the body for example), they shouldn’t be afraid to say "NO!" and tell an adult that can help.

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Our children are our mirror. Children learn, as infants, that only the parents are allowed to touch their private parts, and only if it has to do with cleaning or medical treatment. The child learns through the parents and the close environment about behavioral norms in which the private parts are not exposed. It is important that we, as parents, must insist on keeping our private parts private, thus the our children will learn to respect our privacy and other's as well.

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關於如何與孩子交談的 7 條建議:

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可能濫用的警告信號:

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重要的是要記住,我們的主要目標是了解是否存在合理的濫用嫌疑。保持冷靜。歇斯底里的反應可能會嚇到孩子,增加他們的內疚感,並使他們退縮。